Hello Chillins!
Tuesday, October 19, 2004
A BIG Hello from London!
Hey there, How you doing?
I thought I would take a minute and ask the world to stop moving long enough for me to send out a quick letter. I thought life would slow down a little bit having moved away from the hustle and bustle of our hectic lives in [Hometown]. That did no happen! Now I have to follow up on work permits, visitor visas, health records, etc.etc.etc.
I find that having family and friends all over the world is a wonderful blessing hat is keeping me very busy on the email front. I am emailing out to both sides of the planet and everyone wants to hear more and more. [Child 3] and I just celebrated birthdays at the beginning of the month and now we are preparing for Thanksgiving. We have invited over some new friends, young and old, to celebrate the many blessings in all our lives. I expect it to be very nice, although we will be celebrating on the Friday instead of Thursday, as it is not a national holiday here. Can’t really think why it is not?!?!?
We were off the Bricklane Market this last weekend in search of low priced winter coats and cheap fruit. The boys were blown away by the idea that the prices asked were not always the prices paid. They had never really experienced haggling first hand and were attempting to pay too much. I helped [Child 3] secure a new toy for 6.00 pounds down from the original asking price of 16.00. [Child 1] was beside himself. He had not heard me haggle and didn’t understand why the price was dropping as he was only listening to the man, not me. Silly boy, Mom’s have talent!!! Many goodies
were carried home.
[Husband] acquired two new undershirts and a pair of thermal underwear. He loves to stay warm and here that is not so easy to do. Although I must say, they sure have the heaters on in the stores and subways! You wear lots of clothes to stay warm outside then you have to sweat to death while inside. These coats are big and bulky. No sweaters around here. I may be missing good old [Hometown] about now, what do you think? Driving around in your nice big heated car wearing whatever you choose because you know you are going to park as close to the door as possible and you won’t even have a chance to get cold running between the two. Pleasant memories!
We haven’t gone out much at all in the last month or so as [Husband]s work has been picking up pace, as the end of year rolls round. He emailed me this morning that they are going to begin working on New York time real soon. That is where the majority of trading occurs, between London and New York. He has his finger on the pulse of the financial world! While being paid from a slow IV drip! The opportunity to stay here long term is available, even so far as having discussed permanent hire with me and with his superiors. Everyone adores him! I should start a fan club. Yes, and I could be the President of the club. I like this idea. It makes me feel important!
We will have to study and pray over this really hard. We are not familiar with all the International tax laws and we hope we are not shooting ourselves in the foot. The chance to show our children the world was too great to pass up, we had to take it. But financially it is the same hardship we had before in [Hometown]. The pay here seems higher but with the higher cost of living and the tax rate and fees over 50% of his salary, we still struggle but we are together and happy! Being here also lets us at least think about being able to visit my extended family. It is a lot closer from here than it is from [Hometown].
The kids are very happy.
[Child 2] attended her first sleepover in London. She has a couple of close girl friends that she attends school with and also gymnastics once a week. Shantalle, Corrina, and Xan had a super time playing games and dancing until 1:30. The class studies seem to move slower here so she is having a chance to really understand her math. She has never been confident with math but she is really learning now! Wonderful for her!!!
[Child 1] is playing on the George Greene basketball team. He found that most boys here a pretty much professional football (soccer) players by the time they are 10. He didn’t make the team but was pleased that his friends did and he is practicing with them everyday before school. Getting ready for next year. He also is waiting to hear if he has a spot in the Christmas Show. He auditioned last week. Pray for that please!
[Child 3] has been the big adventure boy! On the 9th of October [Husband] took the kids to the store to purchase a new set of clippers so I might trim their hair. They were looking like a bunch of Beatle’s wanna be’s. On the way home with clippers and a large box of Crispy Crème Donuts everyone vied for their spot in the revolving door. First Xan, then [Husband], and lined up next [Child 1] and [Child 3]. All went smoothly till [Child 1] got excited and jumped in the same space as Daddy, well not to be left behind, [Child 3] jumped in too.
EEEEEEEEEEEEKKKKKKKKKK!!!!!!!!!
Everything came to a screeching halt. [Child 3] had gotten his arm stuck in the door, in a space about 2 1/2 inch wide. So there they are, the boys stuck in a space meant for one person and [Child 3]’s arm is turning many different colors because the blood supply is being cut off. [Husband] called me on the mobile and said they would be running a little late. At the same time the building security was calling in the emergency squad.
Sometime later:
[Child 3] was administered oxygen to lift his levels and the color had come back in his arm. Minus the arm of his coat and brand new birthday shirt (they had to cut it off him) they found their way home to tell me the whole story.
Is it any wonder I have all these gray hairs? Only my stylist knows for sure!
I am being held hostage by this computer. Every day I check the accounts, answer the emails, and ship and receive packages Hey, this is just like a “Real” job! I did work for the last year and a half as a Chief Administrative and Marketing Assistant. I started working when [Husband] became unemployed and also to help out my girlfriend. She is now moving herself, as her husband has taken a new job, they are looking forward to their own Great Adventure!
I also look for employment opportunities in the U.S. for [Husband] but with no luck. I guess we will be here for a while. Cool with me! I spend many, many hours a week trying to keep up with the emails to everyone.
If you are interested, we use an internet program called Skype. It is free and safe. We, have in the family used it for a long time with no problems. The program allows you to use a headset as a phone, but with no charge. Free calls to anyone with a Skype accounts.
You would go to www.skype.com and download the program. (We have found it to be very safe, no problems) Create your free account, they ask for no personal information. Our account is [—]; if you type that in search for other Skype members you will find us. I try to leave us logged in all the time, so it is like a phone. So, it rings and everything.
I better wind this up for today – during this letter I have received a long distance call from [Hometown], a MSN chat from [—], and my laundry have finished. Oh my goodness I almost forgot I have to go pick up the kids. Off I go!
In the true form of my Mom, [—], this is a classic Xerox letter. Mom was known for her love of writing letters and keeping I touch with her family and friends, but with all the people she wrote to, sometimes she was forced to do a Mass-Mailing. This is my way of carrying on the tradition and getting everyone caught up. I would love to hear from you and hear how your little world is doing.
Do not fear, this will not replace the individual and personal emails; this is something I will probably do once a month. OK?
Love in Christ, from all of us, here in London!
Keep in touch,
[Husband]
and Family